Something To Think About

   As we enter and continue through the month it may seem that we are not happy with what we see and realize in ourselves and our relationships.  And we are ready to let go of things that are not working for us as well as relationships that are no longer functional or beneficial to us. Our ability to really see what is what, is going to be acute and we may or may not like what we realize. And we may find ourselves following the advice given on the movie "Eat, Pray, Love": "send them love and light and let it go".

This philosophy would also be beneficial for yourself. Just as you may be hard on those around you, you are likely to be especially hard on yourself.  After all, aren't we our own worst critics? And now that you see clearly what isn't working for you, you may tend to blame yourself for what you have realized and feel guilt that you did not see it before or that you have let it continue for so long. It would be better to also send love and light towards yourself and cut yourself some slack.  After all, usually, we all try to do our best at the time.

So, observing what it is that works for you and what doesn't work for you and letting it go is all good.  But it would be better not to be judgmental about yourself or others.  Cut yourself and others some slack.

Peace,

Heather

© Heather Hunziker - May, 2012